Weird hair and mathematicians
Warning: This short post touches on some heavier topics like suicide and relationship violence. If you are having a mental health emergency, please reach out to a mental health professional, call 911, or a suicide / crisis hotline (in the US, the canonical number is 9-8-8) . This post is a bare bones version of what I wish I could write here, but I'd rather get something out and maybe revisit topics in more detail later. Math is weird and has weird people in it. I remember a close friend in college told me he was a math major because he liked the people - I agree (usually). Mathematical culture seems to really emphasize being accepting of the weirdos, purporting that a love of mathematics is what matters. Barefoot at a conference - not even an eyeroll. (I had my barefoot phase in grad school too.) Blue hair, you do you! I like having the space to be weird, but of course, how welcome you are treated in the community can depend on race, gend...